
“Bring back that lovin’ feeling!”
–The Righteous Brothers
Are we getting even with an unloving world by taking from Mother Nature and then eating poorly? Tell me I’m wrong about these 22 observations:
Listening has been replaced by lecturing.
Talking with has been replaced by talking at, or worse, talking over.
Thinking has been replaced by reacting.
Being contemplative has been replaced by being bored.
Joy has been replaced by excitement.
Gratitude has been replaced by disappointment.
Taking responsibility for your actions has been replaced with blaming and/or making excuses.
Being loving has been replaced with being resentful.
Laughing with has been replaced with laughing at others.
Happiness has been replaced by fleeting fun.
Kindness has been replaced with irritability and being judgmental.
Fulfillment has been replaced by busyness.
Wisdom has been replaced by smartness.
Patience has been replaced by impatience.
Calmness has been replaced by agitation.
Contentment has been replaced by momentary satisfaction.
Making love has been replaced by having sex.
Giving has been replaced by taking, or even worse, grabbing.
Selflessness has been replaced by selfishness.
Value has been replaced by return on investment.
Human being has been replaced by human doing and worse, human having.
Peace of mind and peace on Earth has been replaced by piece of the action.
If I am not wrong, then what do the items at the beginning of each observation have in common that those on the right that have replaced them don’t? To me, it seems that the ones at the beginning of each observation overflow with being okay with the world and oneself and wanting to give back to the world, while the ones at the end overflow with the idea that something is missing and something is wrong, scarcity and pulling, pushing, taking and grabbing to fill the hole.”
The more you feel or live with those experiences on the right side of the list, the more you will try to consume, buy, take and grab to compensate for it, and doing that heats up the world and leads to global warming (a.k.a. much ado about nothing). More importantly, the more you feel and live with those experiences on the left side of the list, the more you want to give back to the world for those gifts.
How does this relate to childhood (and adult) obesity? Imagine being a child living in a world surrounded by people who behave much more like the descriptions on the right side of the list. Furthermore, imagine being a child who feels frustrated, hurt, upset and/or angry, and that the first thing you need is comfort (not pity, but compassion and TLC) and the last thing you need is a lecture or, worse, being barked at and