Tag Archive for Parenting

10 times Marge and Homer Simpson weren’t exactly winning any parenting awards

10 times Marge and Homer Simpson weren’t exactly winning any parenting awards

‘Marge, I’m parenting…!’ Read more

X Factor reject turned millionaire Chloe Mafia lashes out after Instagram users question her parenting skills

X Factor reject turned millionaire Chloe Mafia lashes out after Instagram users question her parenting skills

Didn’t appreciate being asked where her daughter was Read more

16 essential real life parenting hacks

16 essential real life parenting hacks

All the shortcuts you need to know Read more

Katie Hopkins goads Perez Hilton over parenting as Celebrity Big Brother rivalry continues

Katie Hopkins goads Perez Hilton over parenting as Celebrity Big Brother rivalry continues

Katie and Perez are not the best of friends. Read more

Jamie Cullum shares parenting tips ahead of Heart of Gold concert in aid of Kids Company

Jamie Cullum shares parenting tips ahead of Heart of Gold concert in aid of Kids Company

Exclusive: Jamie Cullum says the best advice to give friends who are expecting their first children is not to give any advice at all. Read more

Outnumbered episode two: Nine more top parenting tips from the Brockmans

Outnumbered episode two: Nine more top parenting tips from the Brockmans

In this week’s Outnumbered, Ben investigates psychology, Karen competes in a swimming tournament and Jake’s learning to drive. Meanwhile Sue battles with a recalcitrant printer. Read more

‘Rent-a-gob’ Katie Hopkins slammed by Peaches Geldof in This Morning parenting debate

‘Rent-a-gob’ Katie Hopkins slammed by Peaches Geldof in This Morning parenting debate

Katie Hopkins and Peaches Geldof have come to blows on This Morning after disagreeing during a debate about parenting styles. Read more

Rochelle Humes reveals daughter is already a ‘daddy’s girl’ as she praises hubby Marvin’s parenting skills

Rochelle Humes reveals daughter is already a ‘daddy’s girl’ as she praises hubby Marvin’s parenting skills

Rochelle Humes has broken her silence to gush about her new daughter – saying she is already a ‘daddy’s girl’. Read more

Monster In A Box In Trust Clive Owen Is A Dad At War With An Online Predator VIDEO

For 10 years, David Schwimmer made you chuckle as earnest, feckless Ross on Friends. But in his feature directorial debut, Trust, he will infuriate you and make you cringe — especially if you’re attempting to parent a teenager. Unlikely as this shape-shift seems, Schwimmer in real life has been focusing for the last seven years on the very unfunny subject of sexual predators. Trust is based on the story of a father he met while involved with a Santa Monica rape treatment center, and it is really a horror story for the Internet Age Read more

How Important Are Your Kids SATs Really

Parents of high-achievers are getting the message: Stop the pressure. But what happens when your kid is the one refusing to let up?
My daughter, Kerry, like most college-bound high school juniors, just took her SATs. Watching her prepare, I found myself on board with the movement to reduce academic anxiety in kids. In her new film, “Race to Nowhere,” a mother named Vicki Abeles examines the high-stakes culture that has invaded some schools, creating unhealthy, unprepared and stressed-out youth Read more

The Dancing Parent Dealing with Divorce

Whether it begins with a trial separation, or moves directly to divorce, the break-up of a marriage is a difficult and painful experience for everyone involved, especially for children, even under the most amicable of circumstances.
While mom and dad may find themselves deeply questioning their own life choices, their child may be quietly questioning how they may have contributed to their parents’ parting. Their reactions may include anger, depression, anxiety, sleep-loss, as well as a fear of being separated from mom or dad.
Some kids seem to have an almost infinite capacity to take the cares and responsibilities of their parents’ relationship onto their own shoulders, all too readily blaming themselves for whatever difficulties their mother or father may be facing, especially when it comes to marital disagreements or difficulties.
Their behaviors, sometimes obvious, sometimes subtle, can often change. A child who once may have enjoyed sleepovers with friends or going away to camp may suddenly become a reclusive homebody, refusing opportunities and invitations to engage with the world.
Others react by seeking to spend as much time as possible away from their familiar surroundings and parents, associating them with pain and struggle Read more

8 Surprising Facts About Parenting Genes and What Really Makes Us Who We Are

In 1990, Thomas J. Bouchard, Jr. and his colleagues at the University of Minnesota published a striking finding: About 70 percent of the variance in IQ found in their particular sample of identical twins was found to be associated with genetic variation. Furthermore, identical twins reared apart were eerily similar to identical twins reared together on various measures of personality, occupational and leisure-time interests, and social attitudes.
Bouchard’s study, along with many others, has painted a consistent picture: Genes matter Read more

Parentless Parents Why Writing About Grief Makes Me Happy

Several weeks ago my new book, “Parentless Parents,” was published. This is the third book I’ve written that deals with mourning and loss. And while you might assume I’d be the last person you’d want to meet at a cocktail party, I’ve been told otherwise. I smile; I laugh Read more

Raise Happy Children

One of the most frequent comments I get from parents is, “I just want my kid to be happy.” Though an admirable and common objective, happiness is one of the most neglected family values in 21st century America. Few parents grasp the essential meaning of happiness for their children and fewer still understand how they can help their children to find it.
Parents’ efforts at helping their children gain happiness are undermined by the distorted messages that popular culture communicates to parents about happiness — that happiness can be found in wealth, celebrity, power and physical attractiveness. Yet research and anecdotal accounts of people who have these attributes show that pursuit of these “false idols” can actually cause unhappiness.
By understanding how happiness develops, you can help your children find true happiness. The real causes of happiness are all within your children’s control, so they can actively do things that foster their own happiness.
Self-esteem is a powerful contributor to happiness Read more

School Bullying Empowering Bystanders

Recently I’ve taken a hard look at the advice we give to kids who are being bullied and challenged all of us who work on this issue to do better. Now I want to question the common advice we give bystanders. This is critical for two reasons; we rarely admit the complex role bystanders play in bullying and I’ve never seen us publicly acknowledge that often the reason bystanders don’t come forward is because they don’t have confidence in the adults to do what’s right.
Being a bystander:
It’s not like any of us look forward to the opportunity of confronting a bully, as we saw in the recent Dateline special. Ironically, it can often be harder to confront a bully we’re close to than someone we don’t know or don’t like Read more

Talking to Your Kids About Porn Just Do It Already

Parents have always struggled with how to talk with their kids about sex, but in a world where pornography is a mouse click away, the conversation is more complicated than ever. A rather alarming number of adolescents — girls as well as boys — seem to be looking at porn online and using it as inspiration for their own “sexting,” blithely sending explicit pictures of themselves to their crushes and posing suggestively on their Facebook profiles.
This state of affairs suggests that some teens may feel that they’re expected to have extensive carnal knowledge at an early age — because everyone else does. Here’s where you come in Read more

Is Your New Baby a Marriage Wrecking Ball

Yesterday, two things happened:
I had two separate conversations with new parents about how having a baby can be like a wrecking-ball to a marriage, especially in the first year.
Three different people asked me what tips I’d give parents who want to raise empathetic children.
These conversations are related.
First of all, I want new parents everywhere to know that it is totally normal for that adorable bundle of joy to cause a tailspin in your marital satisfaction. An abundance of research shows that this happens to the vast majority of couples: Statistics vary, but most studies indicate that 70 to 90 percent of couples report being less satisfied with their marriages after a baby is born.
Here’s the thing: Just because it is totally common for us to start feeling, say, hostile, toward our partner when junior comes home from the hospital, it doesn’t mean that those feelings are harmless — to the marriage or to junior.
In fact, hostility between parents can seriously harm a newborn baby’s nervous system. When parents fight, baby doesn’t feel safe, and this is one of the most important things for proper emotional, intellectual and even physical development. Far from being oblivious, pooping blobs, babies are highly attuned to the world around them Read more

Roughing It with a Toddler in a Desert Hotel

Whoever said you can’t go home again should have added that you also can’t go back to a same beloved getaway spot with a toddler and enjoy it nearly as much as when you used to go before she was born.
This was evident over the weekend when our family went to Moab so my husband Rick could run a race in which we have both previously participated three times over the past seven years. The former visits were a mix of hard work (the race) and about as much fun as is legally allowed in Utah (3.2 percent, to be exact). Returning with a 2-year-old proved to be a blast for her (almost every cup of water she drank from came with a straw), if not even more hard work for Rick (the race and then the toddler) and me (the toddler and then the toddler). There might have been some adult fun, save for the lack of a bottle opener.
“Hi, Mommy,” my daughter said, innocently enough, from her Pack ‘n Play just before 7 a.m Read more

Drop the Rope

For three years after my 9-year-old son was diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, I figured he was the problem. After all, I was getting constant calls from his teachers, complaining that he was misbehaving or hadn’t done his homework, or had lost another field trip permission form. At home, he’d routinely melt down, taking out his frustrations by picking fights with his younger brother and me.
Like so many other parents, I’d read dozens of guidebooks. Many contained wise advice, and most suggested complicated routines and discipline plans Read more

The Dangers of Nerfing the World for Our Kids

As you wait in the check-out line at the local drug store, a mother takes out a small travel bottle of hand sanitizer. She proceeds to use it not only on her own hands, but on her children’s hands as well. Or, you reach for the peanut butter to make “PB and J” for your child’s school lunch. Suddenly you remember that your child’s school has a “no-peanut” policy Read more

What Writing Teaches Us About Parenting

Perhaps it’s my writerly instincts, but I’m always on the lookout for connections and metaphors. Someday I hope to uncover a grand theory that unifies all of my life’s pursuits, but for now, I’m content finding a few parallels between being a writer and a stay-at-home dad.
Communicate With Precision
The clich goes that a writer must “find his or her voice.” Sound advice, but what does this mean, practically? I’ve come to understand it as a close attention to mechanics and musicality. Every detail, from word choice to punctuation, plays a part in how a story or essay unfolds. No matter how engaging the content, the reader tunes out if the narrator doesn’t command attention Read more

Failure to Launch How to Help a Boomerang Child

Remember the comedy film, “Failure to Launch,” where Matthew McConaughey played Tripp, a 35-year-old slacker living at home? That was back in 2006, when unemployment was below five percent, the real estate bubble was still inflating and the term “boomerang generation” had yet to become a household word.
Today, due to one of the weakest economies in a generation coupled with burgeoning student debt, many young (and not so young) adults have been forced to seek the refuge of their parents’ home. According to recent surveys, almost a third of adults age 34 and under are living with their parents. What the surveys don’t show is the toll it can take on familial relationships and finances Read more

Why We Dont Need a Mens Movement to Be Good Men

The first and only time I saw Robert Bly, author of “Iron John,” the touchstone of the modern “mythopoetic” men’s movement, I was in college… and I wasn’t sure I was impressed. Although I found the man captivating in many ways, I wasn’t convinced that the manhood he was talking about in poetic terms (and accompanied by a lute, no less) was something I aspired to recapture. Beating drums in the woods never seemed to come naturally to me; to me, it sounded more like feminism for guys than the stuff of manhood.
At the time, I was immersed in the sport of rowing — a male bonding experience that had little to do with poetry and a lot to do with the testing of physical limits Read more

Parentless Parents Its My Birthday

Yesterday was my birthday, and here’s what I did:
7:00 a.m. to 8:45 a.m.: Got birthday cuddles from kids. Opened birthday cards. Received small presents Read more